A Day with my Dad
When I was growing up, at least one of my weekend days was spent riding around in the Isuzu Trooper with my dad while he hunted for antiques. If you’re thinking I was a young antiques enthusiast, you’re kindly and optimistically totally wrong. It was something we did as a family, and that meant that I was along for the ride. I would daydream as we drove around in the car until we arrived at an antique store, at which point I would walk around the familiarly dank, dusty, musty space inspecting every item with an interested but jaundiced eye, purely as a way to keep myself from dieing of boredom. On these days I’d wish that my parents loved Bob’s Discount Furniture or some place “normal” rather than the odd places we frequented. My brother and I used to joke that if we had to buy a new piece of furniture to save our lives, neither one of us would have any idea where to go to get it because my parents only bought antiques. Ironically– or maybe it’s more like obviously– I became a prop stylist and now I pretty much spend my working days in some strange repeat, adult version of that childhood weekend day. Having spent all of those weekends with my dad, I did unwittingly absorb and file away quite a treasure trove of knowledge. I know where to find stuff… I’m good at the hunt!
My dad’s love of collecting antiques started as a hobby of scavenging and dumpster diving on the streets of New York in the late Sixties and Seventies. He’d keep some stuff for himself, and hawk the other stuff to antique dealers around the city. Sound sketchy? Don’t be fooled– you haven’t met my dad! “Anything to make a buck”, as he’d say. These days, I wouldn’t put a little street picking past him, but he generally buys his antiques at actual stores or from legit dealers. He has a great, dynamic eye and he really knows his stuff when it comes to “junk” (another thing he’d say, although his stuff is far from junk). He has amassed quite a respectable collection and in his retirement has begun dealing antiques under the name Period Investments of Savannah. One of his biggest shows every year being Brimfield.
Brimfield. A name that once spawned dread in the deepest parts of my young being. As a kid, spending the day at Brimfield was like a slow death by torture. Of course, now that I am an adult I have grown to really enjoy it, I even look forward to it. People in my world talk about Brimfield as a chic weekend trip to an amazing antique market in the country and it gives me such a kick because it’s sort of like someone telling you how amazing and interesting your annoying and gawky younger sibling is. Anyhow, this year I had a little time off and decided to go help my dad at his booth at Brimfield.
Up at 7am, out of the driveway at 8am, and up to Massachusettes we drove. We had a great busy day at the show topped off with a torrential downpour of rain just as we started packing up… what would life be without a little challenge thrown at you?! We packed the car up tight though, and drove the hour and a half back soaking wet where we were welcomed home with a delicious salmon dinner cooked by my mom. Thanks mom!
We had a busy day but I did get to walk around a tiny bit. I’ve posted a few pictures from the booth as well as some pictures of things I saw that captured my imagination. Enjoy!
- Dad and his junk
- Van antique explosion
- tool chest, painting, horse head
- detail of tool chest painting
- the first thing we sold
- Drugs sign
- A mini banjo with painted flowers
- Barber Shop sign
- big racquet, bigger gun
- Inlaid box
- Inlaid box
- Inlaid box
- Sweet wooden owl
- Sleeping doll
- Horse weathervane
- The set up
- My dad outside his booth with friends
- Totem Pole
- detail of totem pole
- Old costume photograph
- detail of costume photo
- vintage photos of Native Americans
- Model boat with collage
- Collage details
- Beatrice
- trailers and a couch
- Chair
April

It’s been so long since my last post. I apologize. April is my birthday month and between work and birthday fun, things were really busy. In the true spirit of an Aries, I like to bask in the warm light of my own birthday… the cards, emails, phone calls, hugs, dinners, drinks, parties, presents, endless fun… I love it all! I’m shamelessly Aries about it. And with the warm weather this year here in New York, it was all the more fun!
Here is an image from my birthday morning spent with some of my favorite things– painting books, coffee, and my grandma’s Easter bread.
Lilly, one of my best friends since my teenage years, sent me the painting books as a birthday gift from the library of her great aunt and uncle who have an amazing and well respected collection of contemporary art. Their old apartment in Washington, DC was filled with pieces by all the big names in the art world and was pretty much a survey of 20th century art. It was really an incredible place to be able to stay at when I’d visit with Lilly. The books she sent me were Joan Mitchell, Richard Diebenkorn, and Alice Neel– three painters whose work I really love. I was so excited to find this gift in my mailbox because are there are few things that I love more than books, especially art books! The gift was also really special for me because the books will always make me think of Lilly’s great aunt and uncle and the times I spent with their family both at the beach in Delaware and in DC. I’m glad to have a memento from Florence and Marvin.
The Easter bread is a bread my grandma makes every year. I think she must make about 2 dozen because everyone goes home with their own loaf after Easter dinner. The bread is dense, it has raisins in it and there’s nothing better than a piece toasted and buttered in the morning with coffee. When I taste it, I know that spring is here… and my birthday is too!
Easter Egged
Happy Easter! One day late. I have been so busy with work– just running my fool head off from one thing to the next– that I’m only just now getting to post my Easter egg photos.
After all the dyeing I’ve been doing for a top secret project that I’ve been working on (my lips are sealed!)– and I do love to dye things– I just couldn’t wrap my head around more dyeing. And I also don’t think that my currently blue dyed hands could take much more color… so I Mod-Podged my eggs. Along with dye, I also have a soft spot for Mod-Podge and tissue paper. There is so much beautifully colored tissue paper laying around my studio that I decided to create minimalist, color-blocked, Mod-Podged, tissue paper Easter eggs. Long name for minimalist eggs, I know! All you have to do is rip up some tissue paper (or cut it, if you want to be like that I guess), brush a little Mod- Podge on to your blown-out or hard boiled eggs, apply the tissue paper to the Mod-Podged portion, and then brush a little more Mod-Podge over the tissue paper. I’ve got to say, you can cut your tissue paper nicely but experimenting with ripping your tissue paper can help create interesting eggs… Enjoy!
Dyeing
Go Team Khsara!
Hi Friends,
Please take a moment to check out my friend and housemate Suha’s project- Khsara- on Kickstarter. She’s raising money to make a film in Palestine about women who have not married in time… a serious(ly annoying) issue and stigma for women all over the world, which will be approached through comedy. It looks to be an amazing project and film that confronts a topic that so many strong, independent, incredible women out there come up against. I can’t wait to see how Khsara takes shape and where this journey takes Suha!
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1955539544/khsara
Picture Time
Here are some pictures of the family slide show in the living room at Mama’s house on her 90th birthday. I love pictures of pictures!


ps… the portrait on the wall to the left is my mom.



Pool slide!
Mama
Happy 90th birthday to my grandmother Annunciata “Nancy ” Phyllis DiPreta Spezzano- or “Mama” as she is known to her 7 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren. She is one special lady. She taught me how to cook (and eat) real, good, old school Italian food (lots of it) along with some important Italian phrases, and life essentials like sewing a button, tricks for removing stubborn stains– “Shout it out!”–, making pizza dough, growing tomatoes, canning from the garden, making strawberry jam, the importance of eating fresh, healthy, homemade meals, and the love of family (and food).
She has always been ahead of her time, living her life as a strong, independent, “modern woman” before that was the norm. Mama was the third born of eight children. She worked at a local factory during the war and spent her weekends with her girlfriends taking the train in to “the city” (New York City), while her brothers were enlisted. She married at 28, which was late for the time, never settling on a frog and waiting for her true love to come around. When most women stayed home and held down the fort, my grandmother worked while raising 4 kids, sometimes trading her bookkeeping skills for lessons for my mom and her siblings, other times working nights in a ribbon factory, and eventually becoming a supervisor at GE. Somehow, she still found the time to cook every meal (much of it from her garden) and can for the winter, instilling in all of us a love of food and shared meals with family and friends.
She always managed to look stylish back then, and she still looks stylish now! Her Friday morning hair appointment hasn’t changed in years, she loves to go “gallivanting” with the girls, and is the best at finding a good deal– her calendar is so full of dates with friends and family that it’s hard to nail her down! Life has thrown her some curve balls, but she’s resilient and has always found a way to adapt. She keeps her mind active by staying on top of current events and reading, and no one can beat her at a board or card game– she takes no prisoners! Mama always speaks her mind, but we never question her love. More than anything she’s done and above all that she’s inspired us to live up to, she’s provided each of us with a soft place to land and has given us the most valuable thing of all in this big, wild world we live in- real, unconditional, unwaivering love.
Mama, you haven’t just been our rock, you’ve been our continent! We love you!
Pinwheelin’
It’s spring fever. That is what the name of it is. And when you’ve got it, you want – oh, you don’t quite know what it is you do want, but it just fairly makes your heart ache, you want it so!
-Mark Twain
Pinwheels are to spring as ice cream is to summer
Here’s how to make your own:
MATERIALS
What you will need:
- Double sided paper. If you are unable to find double sided paper that you like, don’t worry! You can make your own! Take two pieces of paper and adhere them to one another using either rubber cement or spray tack.
- Ruler
- Craft knife
- Cutting mat
- Glue. Any type of Elmer’s glue or craft glue will work.
- Hole punch
- Eyelet Grommets
- Eyelet setter
- Pins
- Plastic pony beads
- Plastic straws
MAKING A PINWHEEL
1. Cut a 3″ square (or a larger square for a larger pinwheel). Using a craft knife, cut a diagonal slit from each corner that goes approximately 3/4 of the way to the center of the square, leaving 1/4 uncut.
2. Gently bend every other corner in to the center of the square, gluing each corner down as you go. Curling the corners inward with a pencil helps creates a rounded shape and tacking the center down with a pin means you don’t have to hold it while it dries!
3. Once the corners are tacked down and have dried, punch a hole through the middle and insert your eyelet grommet.
4. Holding a pony bead in the back of the pinwheel, directly behind the grommet, secure the pinwheel to the straw by inserting a pin through the grommet and the pony bead and then in to a plastic straw. The pin doesn’t have to hold everything in place too tightly– you want your pinwheel to spin! You may need to trim the straw and the end of the pin if they are too long.
Take your pinwheel out in to the brisk March wind and let it spin, spin, spin!
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E-Zzzzz Eye Pillow
A couple of days ago I arrived back to my apartment in Brooklyn feeling totally depleted after a busy day. Living in New York City can be both exhilarating and exhausting and if you don’t take time to relax and recharge, it can become unbearable. One of my favorite ways to decompress is by meditating. I put on my comfy clothes, darken the room, lay on my bed and ZONE OUT. The other day I also really wanted an eye pillow– the feeling of having a little bit of weight on the eyes really helps me relax– but I couldn’t find the one I’ve had for years. So before meditating I quickly whipped up this eye pillow and I thought I’d share the steps with you. Just kidding. I meditated first, then I whipped up my new eye pillow. It’s not hard to do and it’s such a satisfying and useful addition to your life!
MATERIALS:
You will need:
- A piece of fabric that is at least 10″ x 20″. Something soft is extra nice!
- Filler– lentils or whole flax seeds will do. I used lentils just because that’s what I had on hand. Mixing in lavender is a nice addition for a relaxing scent.
- Pins
- A needle and thread or a sewing machine
- Scissors. A rotary fabric cutter is optional
- A ruler
- A cutting mat (only if you are using the rotary fabric cutter)
HOW- TO:
1. Cut your piece of fabric in to two 5″ x 10″ rectangles.
2. Place the two pieces of fabric face to face so that the backs of the pieces of fabric face outward. The pattern side of both pieces of fabric should not be visible as they are sandwiched together facing each other. Pin the two pieces together by pinning around the edges of the rectangle.
3. Stitch the two pieces of fabric together either by hand or with a sewing machine leaving a .5″ seam allowance and a 2″-3″ opening at one end of the eye pillow.
4. Flip the eye pillow inside out through the opening so that the pattern side of the fabric is now facing outward. Push out the corners of the eye pillow so that they are crisp– using the tip of a pencil can help to get the corners crisp.
5. Fill the pillow about 1/3 – 1/2 of the way up with the filler through the opening.
6. Stitch the opening closed by turning the edges inward about .5″ and using a slip stitch to close the hole.
VIOLÀ! Eye Pillow. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzz….
Shoot me a message if you have any questions about the steps.
** If you are interested in meditating and live in New York City, I would highly recommend checking out classes by Living Meditation with Harshada Wagner. He teaches Monday nights at Abhaya Yoga in Dumbo and Wednesday nights at Virayoga in Soho. He also has guided meditations available on iTunes.

























































